As a Catholic woman, I have to say – why does femininity and letting men make choices for you mean the same thing? You reblog lots of posts that say wives must let the husbands dominate – why is that feminine?

Because God commanded women to be submissive to their husbands.  It is Biblical and the natural order of things, as God intended.

For more: go read my blog posts on true Catholic femininity, the way God intended below:
https://tradcatfem.com/category/femininitywomanhood/